No Shh’ing Needed: Taking Kids to the Symphony in Indianapolis
You’ve thought about it.
You’ve seen the beautiful photos. The orchestra. The red velvet seats. The chandeliers at Hilbert Circle Theatre.
And then your brain whispers:
But what if my kid talks?
What if they get bored?
What if everyone stares at us?
Let’s just say it out loud: Taking kids to the symphony can feel intimidating.
But here’s the truth: Many symphony programs (including the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra!) genuinely wants families in the audience. And they’ve built programs specifically designed to make that first experience feel approachable — not stressful.
If you’ve been curious about taking your kids to live music in Indianapolis, this is your permission slip.
No shh’ing required.
Taking Kids to the Symphony in Indianapolis: Tips Parents Should Know…
Tip #1: Start with something familiar
One of the easiest ways to introduce kids to live orchestra music? Pair it with something they already love. CityMom Beth told us she started with the ISO Film Series which includes live music accompanying a well-known feature film:
“I took my kids to Back to the Future. It’s a movie we’ve watched as a family for years, so they already knew the story and the music. Seeing it in such a beautiful theater - and hearing the music performed live - made it feel more magical than intimidating.”
When kids recognize what they’re hearing, they relax. They’re not trying to decode something new - they’re experiencing something bigger.
Pro tip: Look for film concerts, holiday shows like ISO’s Yuletide, or themed performances first before jumping into a full classical program.
Tip #2: Consider shorter, interactive performances
If your kids are younger, you don’t have to commit to a two-hour concert right out of the gate.
The ISO’s Teddy Bear Concert Series is specifically designed for ages 3–7. These 45-minute performances include storytelling, opportunities to meet musicians, and interactive elements that keep little ones engaged.
Another great entry point? Outdoor performances. Greta shared:
“We saw a short ISO performance at Holiday Park last summer. The pieces were shorter, and the setting made it easy for kids to move around. We all voted we’d go again.”
Look for these on the Symphony’s Summer schedule or their Symphony on the Prairie series.
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Tip #3: Set expectations before you go
For kids, new environments can feel overwhelming. That’s why the ISO offers a helpful “social story” through KultureCity - a step-by-step visual guide that walks kids and parents through what visiting Hilbert Circle Theatre will look and feel like, including:
What the building looks like
Where you’ll sit
What the orchestra sounds like
When people clap
Where to go if you need a break
Reading through it together beforehand can ease nerves and help kids feel confident walking in. Find it here.
Tip #4: Look for sensory-inclusive accommodations
If your child does best with a little extra sensory support, you’ll be glad to know this: The Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra is certified as a Sensory Inclusive™ institution by KultureCity, meaning thoughtful supports are built into the experience at Hilbert Circle Theatre. This means:
Sensory bags (free to borrow) with noise-reduction headphones, communication tools, and tactile items
Weighted lap pads for added comfort during performances
A dedicated Sensory Room on the third floor - a calm space to reset if needed
Items can be checked out at the coat check desk in the Encore Lounge.
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Tip #5: Look for family-friendly pricing (and free options)
If pricing is something you’re considering, the ISO offers several options designed to make live music more accessible for families:
Their free, youth-focused concert series like Teddy Bear Symphony
The Prelude Pass Program, which allows qualifying groups to attend for free if they’ve never attended before
And watch for a new “kids get in free” initiative (details coming soon - we’ll update this post as soon as it’s announced!)
Tip #6: Treat it like a tradition - not a test
Instead of aiming for one “perfect” night, think of it as the start of a tradition. CityMom Jess T. first brought her kids to Yuletide a few years ago - and now they go every year.
“There’s so much to look at and watch. And honestly? The hot chocolate and cookies help.”
She also recommends parents build in other small comforts:
A special treat at intermission
Letting the kids choose what to wear (football jersey or princess dress? Both work!)
Talking afterward about their favorite moment
